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Why Do I Have to Share?

27 Saturday Feb 2016

Posted by bamagirl4real in Church, People, Religion

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adults, blessed, children, Christianity, Church, Family, fortunate, Kids, Parents, Pentecostal, school, share, unselfish


As a child, I never understood why I had to share my parents. It seemed like my parents were always doing more for other people and children. Why did I have to share my parents? It wasn’t fair. I never said anything to my parents about it. I just fussed to my self and cried at night. I wanted my parents all to myself.

Many times, I had to do without, so others could have. There were times when one or both of my parents couldn’t come to participate in my activities (when I did have some) because they were either at church or helping someone else. They gave money to others instead of giving to me. I guess they didn’t love me anymore. At least, that’s what I thought at the time.

It wasn’t until I became an adult and had my own child that I understood why I had to share. Living in Atlanta for 10 years opened my eyes. There were so many children who were unfortunate enough not to have parents who cared about them. For whatever reason, one or both parents were absent from the child’s life. I wanted to fill that void in those children’s lives. I had both of my parents. I couldn’t imagine not having both. That’s when I understood why I had to share.

Even now, I still have to share them. But now, I understand why, and I’m OK with that…at least more than before. Now, I focus more on the fact that they are older and are not able to do as much as when they were younger. Nevertheless, it’s like pulling teeth when trying to get them to slow down, especially when it comes to doing God’s work. I just pray that God will keep them and protect them.

I Was Drugged as a Child!

23 Tuesday Feb 2016

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adults, Bible, children, Church, drugs, grown, laughter, Parents, school


You don’t believe a Pastor/Preacher can drug his own children? Psssh! Think again! This is one reason we as PKs have our issues…we were drugged…every Sunday to Sunday school, Sunday night services, Wednesday night Bible study, Friday night Evangelism service, and choir rehearsal on Saturday! We were drugged to church allll week! No wonder we hated going to church. LOL I said when I got grown, I was not going to church. But when I got grown, I felt weird NOT going.

The Bible states to train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it. I’ve found out that not going to church for a month is not departing. There was a time I didn’t go to church. That didn’t last long. I felt empty…like I was missing something. Needless to say, I started back going to church. Now, I don’t go every day of the week! LOL. But, I do go to church on Sundays.

When I had a child, I promised myself I wouldn’t make my child go to church like my parents did. That was a LIE! LOL. My dad’s voice came through my mouth when I said, “As long as you are living with me, you are going to church.” Ohhh Emmm Geee!! I was officially my father’s daughter. I became the drugger! LOL! Whatever, it didn’t kill me, so it won’t kill him! KML!

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Why We Couldn’t Wear Pants!

16 Tuesday Feb 2016

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Christianity, Family, Kids, Pants, Parents, Pentecostal, Saved


I remember wearing dresses and skirts all of the time. I hated it! But, what could I do? Nothing. I didn’t have a job, I had no money, nor did I have my own place…besides, I was just a kid. So, I had to deal with it. Talk about being cold during the winter. Back then, we had leg warmers. Do you remember them? I hated them. They didn’t stay all the way up. It never failed.

So, why we (my sister and I) couldn’t wear pants was biblical, according to my dad, the preacher and pastor. In the book of Deuteronomy 22:5 (KJV), it states, “The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.” There you go. At the time, it did not register to my dad and many of the other people in the Church of God in Christ that NO ONE wore pants back then. Pants were not even invented. Sooooo….how is that possible? However, no one questioned it. We just went with the flow.

There was one time my dad let me were pants. You couldn’t tell me anything! I thought I was the next best thing to light bread. In this picture, I was able to wear pants. I can’t remember if it was a special picture day or what. Nevertheless, I will always cherish it! LOL

I was sooooo grateful for my grandmother. Whenever we would go over to her house to catch the bus, she would let me put on some pants she bought me. She felt sorry for me! (Thanks Granny!) But wouldn’t you know it, some jealous female at school would call my daddy and tell him I had on pants. Of course when I got home, I put back on my skirt. Whenever my dad asked me about it, I would simply respond, “Where would I get some pants, Daddy?” He never said anything else! Gotta love my granny. And to the female who called my dad to tell on me (yes, I know who you are), you didn’t accomplish anything! LOL

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